Also, three people talking me into saying that „parental support“ would be really great for my child, but that unfortunately it only works from the age of 12, didn’t really help moodwise. Also they think that I need to make sure that he does more things in his free time that don’t take place at home. This idea of ​​the young man taking him to play soccer has already gone wrong once, and badly. 2 years ago I asked the youth welfare office for help and said clearly that I needed a household helper and/or a transport service and/or someone to take the children off my hands. Yeah, it didn’t work. Instead of a domestic helper, we were sent a parenting assistant who recommended aromatherapy when she realized that she was actually superfluous. So week after week, someone came to our house, stayed in all the rooms, including all the bedrooms (including our parents‘ bedroom), criticized me for comforting my daughter when she fell down a high slide, strongly questioned the decision to accept the child as it is and not to question both diagnoses and gender identity, and constantly recommended new medical examinations (because they didn’t like the child and adolescent psychiatrist who was accompanying us) and that I should forbid the child from being itself in certain living spaces.